What would they think when you suddenly go out of temper with them because of what’s been going on inside you that they had no clue about. Should we assume that we see all they look at? People might need help to grasp what we think that they should see, so that there is at least a chance to work things out early before, potentially, the volcano erupts. Nice to do.
There’s something always going on inside. If things are coming to a head and we don’t notice, what do we do after we get there?